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I Work with People Who Are Ready to Face What's Shaping Their Patterns So They Can Build Stability, Trust Themselves Again, and Stop Giving Energy to Misaligned Roles, Relationships, and Work.
Recent Blog Posts
Why Staying Consistent Feels Hard AF When Starting New Things
You know the weird time period after you get home from vacation, or when you’ve been out of your home environment just long enough to miss it? As humans, we naturally start trust falling back into that environment with the behaviors we know support it. Some make sure to clean their home so when they return, they don’t have to rush back into “the day to day”. I’d totally recommend that. You naturally gravitate toward the side of the couch you usually find yourself in, or in th
Bethany Blaine
5 hours ago4 min read


What This Past Year Taught Me About Intuition, Emotional Regulation, and Consistency
How nervous system support changed the way I live from the inside out. Looking back, I can see how this space was building me just as I was building it. About a year ago, on my birthday, I started this website. At the time, it wasn’t a brand or a movement in my mind. It was a place to capture patterns, questions, and lived observations — especially around intuition, emotions, and change. I knew there was a deeper purpose, but when my husband asked what I was building, my answ
Bethany Blaine
Jan 265 min read


“You’re Mean Now, Mommy!”: What to Expect When You Shift from Permissive to Authoritative Parenting
The Future doesn't rest on your shoulders; it rests on your nervous system. If you’ve recently changed how you show up as a parent and started hearing: “You’re mean now.” “You don’t let me do anything anymore.” “I liked you better before.” This post is for you. You’re likely standing in one of the loudest, least talked-about transitions in parenting: the shift from permissive parenting into authoritative leadership. This phase often feels worse before it works. And without or
Bethany Blaine
Jan 84 min read


Navigating Change Within the Family System
There have been moments in my family life where things have felt harder than others – and it’s usually after I’ve decided to be more intentional, aware, and even more thoughtful than before. The gift of awareness is clarity. Clarity of how certain routines that were once perfect start showing signs of outdatedness and are strictly hanging on by habit, or when you notice new milestones surfacing and they aren't as cleaned cut as you imagined they would be. There are the times
Bethany Blaine
Dec 30, 20254 min read
Let’s Talk About the Traits You Hate In Yourself
Let’s be real for a second. We’ve all had moments where we snap faster than we meant to. When we dig our heels in. Get sharp with someone we actually care about. Sometimes it looks like impatience. Sometimes defensiveness. Sometimes that familiar line of criticism you promised yourself you’d outgrown. Here’s the part most people don’t hear often enough: Those moments don’t mean you’re a bad person. They mean your system reacted before your awareness caught up. That’s not a mo
Bethany Blaine
Dec 15, 20253 min read
Learn to Listen: Your Intuition is Never Wrong
When people say they don’t trust themselves, what they usually mean is: “I can’t tell which voice to listen to.” We’re taught to “listen to our intuition,” but we’re never taught how to tell it apart from our thoughts . So, everything gets thrown together like kitchen sink cookies. Fear sounds like protective guidance. Urgency sounds like intuition. Overthinking feels like decision-making. And that’s where things get messy . What Confusion Actually Feels Like Confusion doesn’
Bethany Blaine
Nov 28, 20253 min read
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