We’re At the Threshold
- Bethany Blaine
- Jun 18
- 5 min read
Updated: Sep 9
The importance of your voice right now is not about whether you sink or swim.
We will swim.
Humans always do.
The importance is how much compassion and love you can hold through the cycle ahead.
You carry a unique essence — one that holds frequencies not everyone carries. You have the opportunity to become part of the foundation being laid for the next Age. But you cannot build with fear, anger, shame, guilt, low self-worth, or greed. These patterns belong to the cycles we’ve lived for generations — what we’ve already experienced as humankind, and what we continue to witness now.
There’s no turning away from it anymore.
For many of you, your demons have been walking toward you for years — slowly closing the gap.
You’ve felt them in your chest.
You’ve felt them in your stomach.
You’ve felt them through the heartburn, the anxiety, the palpitations.
This cycle is shattering your escapism and jolting you into realities that are harder to face — but meeting them makes everything easier.
You breathe better.
You cultivate peace.
You begin to look forward with hope and purpose, instead of cycling through another season of “I’m fine,” or “I’ve got control over the next few months, so I can fake this smile.”
It’s not about numbing through:
“Netflix and chill keeps me going.”
“This game keeps me from losing my mind.”
“At least I have a vacation coming.”
The Age We Are In / The Age We Are Raising
What makes this threshold so critical is not just personal.
It’s generational.
It’s structural.
We are standing at the tail end of the Information Age — an era fueled by data, hyper-connectivity, and now artificial intelligence. We are already deep in transition toward something entirely new: a coming era many will name differently, but at its core will be shaped by two major forces:
• The Regenerative Age — where sustainability, circular economies, ecological repair, and restoration become non-negotiable.
• The Conscious Age — where leadership, technology, and systems require human integrity, embodied awareness, and distributed power.
We are no longer simply managing our systems — we are being asked to rebuild them.
And whether we rebuild from the same unresolved wounds or from something new will determine the world our children inherit.
Why You Matter
This isn’t just personal healing.
It’s not self-help.
This work holds collective consequence.
The reason we’ve arrived at this point in humanity — socially, politically, economically, spiritually — is because unresolved emotion, suppressed pain, and inherited trauma have quietly shaped how we build systems.
When generations avoid facing grief, guilt, shame, fear — and greed — those emotions don’t disappear.
They embed into structures.
Unprocessed fear creates policies built on control.
Unmet shame creates cultures of secrecy and image management.
Buried guilt creates cycles of blame and punishment instead of accountability and restructuring.
Wounded self-worth creates hierarchies where power must be taken, not shared.
Unchecked greed creates extraction models where endless accumulation becomes the highest aim — draining resources, people, and meaning in pursuit of “more.”
Most people don’t recognize how greed lives at both scales:
On a micro-level, it may look like:
Overworking to prove worth
Accumulating to feel safe
Consuming to avoid emptiness
Clinging to comfort at the expense of others.
On a macro-level, it becomes:
Exploitative systems
Resource hoarding
Profit at any cost
The widening gap between wealth and suffering
The systems many now call “broken” were built, in large part, from unresolved human pain — and fueled by the unexamined drive for more.
Our personal avoidance becomes institutional avoidance.
What we refuse to face internally, humanity repeats externally.

Where We Hold What We Avoid
The emotions you’ve carried don’t simply exist in your mind or echo in your behavior.
Your body holds them, too.
Shame often lives in the chest and face: collapsed shoulders, lowered gaze, quickened breath.
Guilt anchors in the gut: tight stomach, digestive discomfort, replaying regret.
Anger and resentment collect in the jaw, neck, shoulders, and hands: clenched teeth, stiff neck, gripping hands.
Low self-worth weighs down posture: slumped back, shortened breath, hesitation to take up space.
Greed hides in the nervous system’s survival response: compulsive accumulation, restless drive, inability to feel satisfied.
We’re not simply feeling these emotions — we’re carrying them.
Take Your Power Back
This doesn’t happen in a single moment.
It’s a practice of giving the body permission to complete what it was never allowed to finish.
When we freeze, suppress, or avoid — the body locks the charge inside.
When we gently meet it — the body naturally starts to release.
Simple, logical ways this can begin:
Breathwork — Deep diaphragmatic breathing regulates the nervous system.
Gentle shaking, bouncing, or dance — Discharge excess energy like animals do.
Vocal toning or humming — Relax the vagus nerve.
Grounded movement — Barefoot walking or gentle swaying.
Touch and compression — Apply gentle pressure to create containment and safety.
The logic is simple:
When the body believes it’s safe, it lets go of what it no longer needs to carry.
And every time you meet your own system with compassion — not force — you make more room to move forward.
A Word to the Parents
For those raising children inside this shift, this work carries another layer.
Because children do not only inherit the world we leave behind — they inherit how we meet ourselves.
If we suppress, they absorb suppression.
If we avoid, they absorb avoidance.
If we regulate, they absorb safety.
If we repair, they absorb wholeness.
Our nervous system becomes the first environment their nervous system grows within.
This isn’t about raising children who never feel pain — it’s about raising children who trust themselves to meet it.
Every time we sit with our own shame, fear, or frustration with awareness instead of defensiveness, we clear space in their blueprint.
They may not know what we prevented.
But they will feel what we allowed.
The world ahead will not only be shaped by innovation, but by emotional capacity.
The way we meet ourselves today quietly alters what becomes possible for them tomorrow.
You are not raising children to avoid storms.
You are raising children who know how to sail through them.

Facing my demons was the only way through.
You must face yours.
Because whether you do or not, this New Age of humankind is already being birthed.
Just like somatic release, it is an ongoing process, and the only way out — is through.
But the difference between carrying forward what we’ve always done — and creating something entirely new — may very well be you.
This is not about grand heroics.
This is about willingness.
This is about participation.
This is about personal responsibility in a time when everything is shifting.
And you are being invited to decide how you will meet it.
I write to those who feel the shift and know they’re part of what’s unfolding.
Inside The In Between, I share deeper reflections, personal rhythms, and the living practice of this work as it moves through my life.
If you’re ready to keep walking this path with me, you can join in.
We’ve got work to do.
With love,
Bethany







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