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Why Perfectionism Keeps You Stuck (and How to Shift It Into Progress)
If you’ve ever felt trapped in the perfectionism loop, I feel you. It’s the triple-check, Refine Refine Refine and tweak until it feels “safe” to let go kind of vibe. No matter how much you do, it never feels done or ready. I’ve caught myself rewriting this very blog several times, convinced that it wasn’t “ready” or up to my standard. That’s the exhausting cycle of perfectionism—and why breaking free from its grip matters so much. What Causes Perfectionism? My definition of
Bethany Blaine
Sep 18, 20255 min read


When Thoughts Become Form: My Journey Through Bitterness, Shame, and Clarity
Every thought eventually takes a shape and snowballs if you allow it. Some crystallize as words on our tongue, others as decisions, behaviors, or the invisible weight that hangs in a room. Consciousness has always been the foundation of reality; the outer world is simply our inner world externalized. I knew this to an extent, but ownership took time. The Mirror of Behavior It only took the journey into emotional maturity to realize something simple: when someone is outwardly
Bethany Blaine
Sep 11, 20253 min read


Walking Your Hero’s Journey: How to Turn Struggle into Transformation
The Middle Isn’t a Breakdown — It’s the Pattern Showing Itself Most people don’t fall apart because they’re incapable. They fall apart because something in their life is changing faster than their patterns know how to support. Burnout. Relationship strain. Identity shifts. That unsettling feeling of “I don’t recognize myself anymore.” We tend to treat these moments like personal failures. Like something has gone wrong. From a behavioral perspective, they’re something else ent
Bethany Blaine
Sep 4, 20253 min read


Rest and Relaxation Aren’t the Same - and Confusing Them Is Why You Still Feel Worn Out
Rest and relaxation get used interchangeably, but they do very different things in the body. When we expect one to do the work of the other, we end up lying down, taking time off, or slowing our schedule… and still feeling depleted. If you’ve ever thought, “I rested, but I don’t feel restored,” this is likely why. A Simple Way to Understand the Difference Think about planning a very full vacation. You see everything. You do everything. Your days are packed — and meaningful. T
Bethany Blaine
Aug 17, 20253 min read


Navigating Burnout, Business, & Motherhood: A Rebellion Against Shaky Foundations
Burnout isn't always loud. Sometimes it shows as momentum, clarity without action, or hidden strain. The pillars of Nutrition, Movement, and Creativity aren't about productivity; they're about foundational shifts to reclaim rhythm, rebuild capacity, and support you in holding more of what you truly want.
Bethany Blaine
Aug 2, 20254 min read
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